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J. Michael Bloom remembered by Lisa Joy…Thank you for the memories Mr. Bloom
NO, I did not become a rich and famous person by my association with the J. Michael Bloom & Associates. But I did become wealthy in understanding of the world around me and it’s possibilties!
I went to the J. Michael Bloom company when I was about 21 years old. I worked there for about 5 years. I always had a way of being that allowed me to be in places that expected descrete conduct! I guess I made an impression and I was hired by company.
I was also quite shy! But I loved actors, and acting. While I attended Queens College I had taken stage direction class.
When I was a child my mother (in an effort to break me from my with drawn behavior) placed me in an acting class and I played the lead role to “Member of the Wedding” stage play.
So I really thought about acting when I was older and understood what it was about a littler better than when I was nine years old. I loved to decide how a stage play should be handled, but I was too shy to even cope at that point in my life.
I was very withdrawn in some areas of my life. But the J. Michael Bloom company did not judge me. They liked me and they hired me. The office manager was very kind and motherly in her approach toward me.
Once I had been in a car accident, the J. Michael Bloom and Associates Office Manager, Janice Morrision placed me on the health insurance to protect my health for the future.
I was still quite shy….but they were full of compassion on a young sheltered woman as myself. I really appreciated that.
Although the office manager placed me on their health insurance coverage, that had to come from the top of the orangization! J. Michael Bloom the man, had trusted her judgement.
I had met him many times when he would come from California to address business in the New York Office. Every year at Christmas the office parties were filled with all of the foods, and decorations that make the holidays quaint, and joyous!
Michael Bloom would always talk individually to each worker after the party and give a bonus check! He wrote a very kind and inspirational note to my mother about the type of worker I was!
I was so honored that he even noticed an office worker such as myself! Because I sing, the office manager and the CEO of the company, Daniel Heffernan were so very kind to tell me where I could go into the Village to record my voice for $15.00!!
They even let me go on my lunch break no matter how long it took!
I was well treated, I had my own office. I had my own phone and I was respected while I worked at the J. Michael Bloom & Associates Talent Agency.
I was able to see people who were famous for their accomplishments in acting or beauty or cuteness or whatever!
I so wished I could be like them. But I could see the star quality that made them stand out from the rest.
I began to learn to look around me and use the information for my own life. My learning experience was to strive to be the best I could be in whatever field of interest I approached.
There are so many life lessons I had received when I left the J. Michael Bloom Talent Agency! The most important is that I can achieve!
Famous people, people lawded for their accomplishments are merely humanbeings who refused to let the odds stacked against them slow their drive or stop their goals.
Some people are truly naturals! That is true also!
Sometimes it is the “luck of the draw.” But many times it is chemistry! How did I get the opportunity to be in the halls of J. Michael Bloom for five years?
I do not know.
But I did start out as a temp and then I was hired permaently! I have had dreams where I still feel the green carpet under my feet.
Sometimes I would arrive early and I would be all alone in the office. It was peaceful there….nothing to be afraid of.
I have had dreams and awoke remembering myself walking down the halls and exiting the lobby entering the bronze elevator.
Well, in my mind now, J. Michael Bloom is walking the halls and laughing and talking to his clients and staff.
Thank you J. Michael Bloom for touching my life with the possibility to dream!
—Fini…..
Riveroflifelisajoy
Music: Riveroflife CD–I Have Not Let Any One Hear My Music Yet! How do I get started?
my son\’s playlist jay jewelzJump in the RiverJust Another SpringDay by Lisa JoyfulThis is my CD. This is the reason I call my blog Riveroflifelisajoy!
I wrote about 5 five songs on this CD.
I went to the Inside/Outside Recording studio in Manhattan owned by RobertTurley! I love to write music.
Robert has the best sounding music that I was inspired to write the words and create a melody to. I copyrighted my songs through the Library of Congress.
I have not sent my music out to any producers or record companies yet. Why you ask? I am scared! Scared of Rejection! Silly right? I wish that this blog had a sound ability so that I might let you listen to tell me what you think!
I have a style like Roberta Flack. I am not Areatha Franklin….although I have been told that I have that look?! I do not think I look like her…but being darkskinned and heavy people keep comparing me to her. I tell them I am not traditonal in sound. I am more mellow.
My songs are varied. Some of my music sounds INDIE, and yet some of my other music has a Jazz feel. The words are contemporary Christian and inspirational. I can write blues, or love songs too. I just chose to start off in my faith and then branch out.
I have to check into sound from my blog…I want you guys to hear my music so badly! Get back to you soon on this.
thanks!
I love the Summer! A reflection on my favorite Season–Mid-Winter Crisis! amatuer prose by riveroflifelisajoy
early in the morning
The sun begins to rise
around 5:30am
And I groan because
I see the slivers of sunlight
peaking through the shades of
my bedroom window
But alas I must arise for
it is Saturday in the
Summer!
To take a ride out
to oceans edge at
Far Rockaway Beach
To sit on th beach
early in the morning
Years ago the dogs we took
would chase the
small crests of the water
that rolled to the
beached crabs, and sea weed
The sunlight warm upon our
backs and the joy of life
warm within our souls
My child giggled and laughed
and played with the dogs
And I basked in the joy that
was his as his youth embraced
him gently
Oh, for that time today
here in February!
Although my birthday is
in February,
I would
have enjoyed a mid July
birthday in which
I could invite others
to spend an early
morning romp on
the beach,
an early morning
breakfast seaside
barefoot, warm
and casual
Elderly ladies wandering the sands
beach bagsand umbrellas
in hand
young couples at play
babies with their mothers
lay
on a beach towel,
or blanket
Oh how I wish for my Summer today!
Mid-Winter Crisis–
OH… do go away!
The yachts float by, showing off their
owner’s wealth,
I dream
and imagine myself
at the helm of that yacht
The seaguls cry
as air planes
streak the sky
sending messages
to us below
and the sporadic police,
or parks
department vehicles
that patrol the
sands,
The New York version of
BayWatch!
Oh yes, winter 2007 and 2008
have been
very nice!
No great squals,
or blizzards
But still deep in my midlife crisis
gizzard,
I yet yearn for
new life, new summer sun!
Look!
I want to get out
and have Summer fun!
The hope and joy
of Saturday morning
in the
summer!
Filled with the promise
of new experiences
Look, lets walk the Nautical Mile
Freeport is not far away!
Let’s go there today!
Oh, yes, I have it bad!
But yet I have it good!
Summer’s not too far away!
I will hold it together
just one more day!
—–FINI—-
by riverofliflisajoy
Candida Just Wanted to Meet the Man of Her Dreams –Attacked on a Date–non/fiction story
Candida had been a freshman in the second semester of Queens College. She met a very tall, good looking guy called Donado in the main building of the college one day. She saw him after he saw her it would seem.
She was walking and he approached her and said “Hello! How are you doing today?” She was taken back because she was deep in thought about issues of the day. He was with friends. She was surprised that he would talk to her.
She was naturally shy and withdrawn. They walked across the campus to her next class. She gave Donado her telephone number and they talked on the phone that night. He was very, very tall. She was only 5’2″.
Her mother said that he seemed a bit too tall for her. She did not care. He seemed nice. They ate lunch at college together. One weekend Donado invited Candida to go to the KingsPlaza Mall in Brooklyn where he lived.
Candida, being some what sheltered she was nervous when she had to take the long train ride to Brooklyn, and had thoughts of sitting in the movie theatre and having something to eat in the mall with her new “boyfriend”. This would be her first boyfriend.
Her mother would not allow her to date in junior highschool, or highschool. No one ever had called the house when she was growing up. Although she was in college, she knew she had a lot more to learn then just academics!
She had told her mother that she would be going to Brooklyn to have lunch and a movie with Donado. Her mother gave her the usual warnings about safety.
When she came out of the subway she saw Donado immediately. He had a big smile on his face. He took her hand and walked with her to the Kings Plaza Mall. Once in side he ran into some of his friends.
He was proud to introduce her to his “boys” and they were pleasant. Candida had butterflies in her stomach. This was her first date! At 19 years old, she was embarressed to tell anyone that she had never had a real boyfriend!
Now, she felt like a more mature person. It was fun. Wow, and he was so tall, and she felt protected and secure! They had a lunch and then he wanted to stop at his house before they went to the movies. He shared his apartment with his mother.
His mother seemed rather small, and thin and pale. She looked very tired, exhausted. The house was clean, but she seemed annoyed with Donado. He went to his bedroom to get something and Candida and Donado’s Mom, had a uncomfortable silence.
She did not ask Candida any questions and did not volunteer any conversation. His mother just looked around the room. Donado soom emerged from his bedroom and left without saying anything to his mother.
His mother asked when he would be back and he said after the movie. When they exited the apartment he took Candida by the hand and limited his long strides so that she could keep up with him. They arrived at the movie theatre and he paid for the tickets. The movie was all that Candida expected.
Donado placed his arm around her shoulder and pulled her close to him. Candida could feel her heart racing within her chest. Wow! She thought! I have a boyfriend! Her stomach fluttered, and she felt a warming sensation deep within.
She felt that she had come to the place that she had seen other young ladies with their boyfriends on the college campus.
She was not a loner anymore! I have a boyfriend! I have a boyfriend! She could barely keep her mind on the movie!
She could not wait to get home and tell her friend from college about the movie and her boyfriend and his arm around her shoulder!
After the movie ended Donado said, “Lets go back to my house before you go home and play some checkers, you want to do that?”
Candida, really was ready to go home because her mother warned her about traveling at night from an area she was not familiar with.
She said, okay, but just for a little while. When she entered the living room, Donado invited her to sit on the leather couch. He went to his room and got a box that contained the checkers.
His mother did not come out of her room this time. She heard his mother call Donado several times before he finally answered her. Donado brought Candida a cool drink from the kitchen. He sat next to her and said I want a kiss.
Candida was unpracticed in romantic activities so she gave him a peck on the cheek. This was the first time they had been some what alone since they had met.
When she reached over to kiss his cheek he turned and kiss her on the mouth full and then pryed her lips apart and then planted a deep kiss on her.
Ugh! She felt drool on her face, and her mouth. She felt sick, and nauseas.
She pushed him away and he persisted. She began to feel scared because he had practically climbed on top of her. Soon he had her shirt up and was pulling at her bra!
She was stunned and embarressed. She was wondering what would his mother think!
She would never had let something like this happen in her mother’s house, especially with the mother in the next room.
She tried to talk and he continued to kiss her forcefully on the mouth. At one point she thought that she almost could not breath. He was tall and pressing hard against her.
She wanted to run from this night mare and could not get away. Donado finally got his way and had pulled her blouse part way off and her bra too.
Suddenly his mother was in the room and yelling…..DONADO!!!
WHAT ARE YOU ALL DOING TO HER?!!!!
What are you doing to that girl?
Stop it do you hear?
Stop it I said!
Candida’s heart was pumping, and her ears and face were burning from the heat of the emabarressment and fear she was experienceing. All she wanted to do was to run.
She had never really kissed anyone before. Plus she had never had anyone take her shirt off of her either. She was humilated. Donado’s mother must have thought that she was’nt such a nice person too.
Donado got up off the couch and ran over to his mother and told her to shut up and go back into her room. They began to argue and Candida pulled her blouse and bra back on and also began to put on her coat.
Donado wheeled around and said,
“Where are you going?”
“I am leaving, I want to go home!” Candida said.
Donado looked puzzled, “What’s the matter? What do you mean what is the matter?”
Candida could barely speak.
Her feelings were hurt, and all she wanted to do was get on the train and get home to the safety of her mother’s house. She felt lost and afraid of this Donado!
When he got her to the train station she went in and did not look back. He called her at home and she would hang up on him. He saw her at college and she would avoid him.
What is the matter is all he kept saying, and she would reply, “You know what you did!” Donado then replied, “You need to grow up little girl!”
Candida was so ashamed, because Donado had said that in front of his friends. From that day forward she walked in another direction. She avoided that area.
Some months later she met another young man at church, who treated her with respect, and they dated for several years.
Dating and relationships are delicate like a flower. They need to have care, compassion and mutual respect.
The experience described here is true. The names were changed for obvious reasons.
Candida had been inexperienced in dating. But that did not make it justified for Donado to attempt to dominate her.
This blog is for those young people who are dating and have had this experience, or might have it.
Remember respect one another, date rape, or near date rape is not fun. If someone says no! No, means just that NO!
I hope this story will help others in their quest for relationships.
Be kind to one another.
Till next blog,
Riveroflifelisajoy
Ladies and Gentleman let me Introduce to You! Two New Blog Sites related to RiverofLifelisajoy—-JayJewels–Fireoflife and MadelineGertrude-I Grew Up in the Great Depression–Prove it to me!
February 17, 2008 at 4:02 pm · Filed under American History, Black History, black male teens, Fireoflife JayJewels @Riveroflifelisajoy blog site, MadelineGertrude I grew up in the Great Depression, Prove it to me! @ Riveroflifelisajoy, senior citizen commentary, teen academic writing, Teen activities, teens in sports and tagged: black male teen blogger, JayJewels blog Fireoflife @ riveroflifelisajoy, MadelineGertrude blog I grew up in the Great Depression, New blog entries from my mom and my son!, Prove it to me!, senior citizen commentary, teen academic writing, teen age sports writing
Hi, Guys! I want to invite you to check out my son JayJewels at the Fire of LIfe blog. It will be his thoughts on various topics. My mom also is dictating her thoughts to me on her years of life experience in the 1930’s and how it correlates to the state of the world today.
So check it out and tell them what you think. It w ill come on as my blog—cause I can’t seem to separate their blogs from mine….but they will know you care when you respond to their particular blog!
My son Jay Jewels likes books so expect some interesting book reviews okay?
Oh, and uh, my mother is very, very, very, very opinionated about topics…so watch out for that too.
Hope you enjoy! I might write something on their little area once in a while too.
See ya there!
Riveroflifelisajoy
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