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HOW TO HELP YOUR CHILD BECOME A SUCCESS!
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Some people like to tell me to stop focusing on my kid so much. But you know what? If I do not help him now…he may not be able to support himself or his future wife and kids. So what is wrong with being there now?
Oh, some people have told me…you need to keep yourself happy. Look, when I am past the age of 48 that I am now….I would hate to have to look back and see that I did not do all I could to help my child acheive.
Hey, everybody has a diferent reason for what they do in life.
I am sitting here blogging….so am I totally consumed with my son 24 hours a day????? OF COURSE NOT! My son plays tennis with other people. I do not actually play the game.
I am there to help him to stay focused on the actual training.
How do you think Tiger Woods and Venus and Serena made it to the top of their sports and careers?
The parents helped those kids stay focused and become the men and women that they are today.
Last week ( at the Kids Day in Queens of the USOPEN) Serena won $15,000.00 for a charity that she began her own name…to give back to the community.
So all of the effort that the father of Venus and Serena Williams (Tennis Champions) placed and focused on helping the two young ladies paid off and it now helps others!
—– So when my son gets up to play…I am about 200 to 300 feet away from him. I also am either shopping, or checking in on my mother…reading a newspaper, or talking to other parents.
My son has to come to his own conclusions about his goals and dreams.
I AM ONLY A FACILITATOR!!!!!
I drive my son to the golf course in Dyker Brooklyn to the children’s golf course. I take him to the SPORTS AUTHORITY look at tennis rackets, tennis clothing, golf clubs, etc. I take him to Barns and Nobles for books for school, and reading material. I drive him to competitions, and to coaching lessons. But the rest is up to him.
So is that wrong? Hey, look, my child did not ask to be born. My child was a WANTED CHILD!~ I was legally married to my husband for 5 years before I finally got pregnant.
I have not had any other pregnancies, or any other husbands. Soooo for me to sacrifice….is absolutely nothing. My child could not raise himself.
When you have a child you have to consider atleast….20 years or so to help him or her get educated, have food, shelter, training how to live in this life, and be able to get a job or career.
So for me it will not be the EMPTY NEST SYNDROME….it will be happiness that I gave as much as I could to help someone to accomplish his goals.
If he turns around and changes his mind about his goals, and throws it all away…he cannot blame me.—for I have given all of myself to him to become a man… of stature and respect.
If he turns his back on whatever ideals and concepts that have been carefully taught to him….I will bare no shame in this….it will be his choice as a man.
But if I turn away now…as he just enters his 10th grade in highschool and is finishing his 15th year of life…then I will be to blame.
My selfishness will begin later. So right now…I enjoy blogging! Is there anything wrong with that? I am on vacation…when I express my views here with you.
So that is why I challenge all of us parents…focus on HOW TO HELP YOUR CHILD BECOME A SUCCESS…YOU WILL NOT REGRET HONEST HARD WORK….AND PURE LOVE GIVEN TO YOUR CHILDREN.
Remember..even Vice President hopeful Elect Palin has 5 children and her oldest daughter who is 17 is pregnant according to the news reports on 1010 Wins and AOL NEWS MEDIA, she fully supports them in all that they do. She supports her 17 year old daughter in her goals for herself and soon to be new family.
The most important thing is keeping an OPEN COMMUNICATION WITH YOUR CHILDREN. NO MATTER WHAT!
That will mean your children should come to you with whatever the condition is.
It is not easy to do that. I know. I am a single parent.
I want the best for my son…but I also know that no one’s kid is an angel. So pray with your kids, and love them…just as the Lord above loves you and forgives you of all your mistakes daily….correct?
Remember no one is perfect, and everyone makes mistakes.
Love your kids….love yourself and don’t be too hard on your kids or yourself.
You and your family will live happier, and longer lives. TOGETHER!!!
till next blog….
RIVEROFLIFELISAJOY!~
SHOW WHAT YOU CAN DO!
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WORK YOURSELF UP
TO A POINT
TO WHERE PEOPLE WILL
SEE YOU
AND SEE HOW MUCH ENERGY YOU ARE
PUTTING INTO WHAT
EVER YOU DO.
SOMEONE MAY TAKE
NOTICE, MY SON…
CONTINUE FORWARD
AND DO NOT HESITATE
IN BUILDING A GOOD
REPUTATION FOR YOURSELF
ACHIEVEMENT CANNOT BE DONE
WITHOUT WORKING HARD
YOU CANNOT SIT BACK ON YOUR
BEHIND AND EXPECT TO
ACCOMPLISH ANY GOALS
GET UP, GET MOTIVATED…AND
TRY, TRY, TRY!
MY MOTHER ALWAYS PREACHES THAT TO ME
AND I WILL PREACH AND TEACH IT TO YOU
MY SON….
REMEMBER, I AM WITH YOU
TO BACK YOU IN WHATEVER
WORTHWHILE GOALS YOU HAVE
PEOPLE WILL SEE THE DRIVE IN YOU…
AND MAYBE THEY WILL HELP YOU..
IF YOU ACT DEDICATED, SOMETIMES IT MAY TAKE YEARS
SOMETIMES PEOPLE WILL SEE THE GO GETTERS…
PULLING THEMSELVES UP BY THE BOOTSTRAPS
IF YOU DO NOT KID AROUND, AND BE
HONEST AND STRAIGHT FORWARD
MAYBE SOMEONE WILL SEE SOMETHING IN
YOU AND BE WILLING TO HELP YOU…
SO WATCH HOW OTHER PEOPLE HAVE ACHIEVED
DIFFERENT THINGS MY SON….
WATCH AND LEARN FROM THOSE AROUND YOU
AND REMEMBER I WILL BE THERE TO HELP
AS MUCH AS I CAN….
I WISH AND PRAY FOR YOU
THE BLESSINGS FROM THE LORD
ABOVE…
‘FINI~~((((((( THIS POEM IS DEDICATED TO MY SON….JAY JEWELS..aka)
riveroflifelisajoy~
A LITTLE BIT OF EVERYTHING….7TH INSTALLMENT….CONCERN ABOUT THE FUTURE OF EVERYTHING…
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At this time…it is about 4am, or 5 am. I was awakened by this stabbing pain in my back. As usual I am blog stat obsessed. So I came down stairs to take my meds..for this “shingles” and I came to the computer to start checking my blog stats.
Low, for the entire summer, except when I wrote about Bernie Mack passing away. I got 519 that day. I would have perferred a different number. But I did love Bernie Mack a lot.
However, I do not believe that I paid the homage to him that he deserved. Anyway, I digress.
I have this stabbing pain from shingles… It feels as sharp as it did 5 days ago…before I knew it was shingles…Ugh…Oh, Lord…what do I do?
I have this ridiculous rash on my stomach and pain. It comes and goes. I do not take pain killers.
I am not one for pain killers. Pain killers can destroy the stomach lining, or cause high blood pressure or worse.
So I avoid pain killers at this time. I am willing to cope …so I just blog…until I get too pain ridden, or tired or both.
I will stop by the emergency room, or go back to the doctor….before Tuesday…(back to work day) to decide what is the next step with this annoying back pain…from shingles. UGH….Lord have Mercy!
NEXT TOPIC-
Alaska has more to offer than just “Northern lights”, polar bears, ice, and wild life….According to John McCain…there is a Vice President up there.
I do not know what to think of this. It is quite smart…but long term committment….long term history or knowlege of government on the part of the recent governor of a “Bible Belt” gun toting state….hard to figure…”just fasten your seat belts…it’s gonna be a bumpy ride!!!”
NEXT TOPIC:
REVISITING HURRICANE KATRINA….
I do not understand the so called NO PLAN OF ACTION PLAN…EXCEPT TO EVACUATE EVERYBODY….NO PLAN OF ACTION PLAN OF NOT TO PREPARE A HOLD OVER SITE INCASE THEY CANNOT GET EVERYBODY OUT PLAN????
Do they always get it wrong I wonder? I hope this is not playing out like some kind of C-list movie…where the main characters…the victims suffer again…like last time.
I remember watching the news on my friends cable TV Weather Channel, and CNN and how those people were stranded on the roofs of buildings and screaming for just some water!
Lord…I hope these elected and state officials,, and city officials have their finger on the pulse of this new hurricane Gustav!
NEW TOPIC:
SCHOOL SUPPLIES…..WHO PAYS FOR SCHOOL SUPPLIES FOR MY KID?
Yesterday I was sitting in the park…watching my son play tennis. I was relating my son’s lovely tennis camp experience…and golf experience of the summer to another mother.
She changed the subject to school supplies. She is NOT a single parent like me. So she does not get the point of how hard it is to buy anything after the rent is paid.
She started telling me to go to Jamaica Avenue, Staples, and Office Max to buy school supplies. I told her that I have no money at all.
She started telling me that pencils and things were 20 cents etc. I explained that I was literally sitting there with$5.00 (five dollars in my pocket).
I explained that I pay $1600.00 per month for rent….I am a single parent…(which she knows)
She is not. She and her husband are home owners and have two kids.
I have one child…but I care for my mother and son. I do not receive child support. So you know what happens to me?
I feel like back to school is just like CHRISTMAS TIME IN AUGUST AND SEPTEMBER! Whether a box of crayons or pencils or pens is cheap means nothing.
I am on a limited income…so it is not PART OF MY BUDGET….I do not have a budget….My income is shot!
Once I pay the rent….I have barely enough money to buy food. I have a nearly 6 foot tall size twelve foot….15 yearold eating maching in the house.
My loving oversize child…needs to eat alot of carbs…or he can get literally SICK….(READ MY OTHER BLOGS…)
So….basically We as a family of three…. live PAY CHECK TO PAY CHECK.
(READ MY OTHER BLOGS ON INCOME DISPARITY….THEN YOU WILL UNDERSTAND MY POINT HERE.—ALSO PROBABLY THE REASON FOR THIS STUPID SHINGLES PROBLEM (STRESS RELATED ILLNESS).
—Thus, my annoyance…when this “woman” who is not struggeling on her own like I am…started pressuring me to get up out of the park and run down to Jamacia Avenue….and get these great sales..
I just started spewing my SAD STORY ABOUT MY LACK OF MONEY….but I did inform her that I would go get my son’s school supplies when I get paid this week.
How could she be so unaware that other people do not have the same set of financial circumstances that she has?
My family tree does not have any uncles, aunts, cousins, husband (due to catastrophic disease ), inlaws( due to total disfunction of my estranged husband’s family)—-Myself, my mother and my son do not possess any family that step in and give any financial assistance what so ever!
When my son graduated eigth grade going into highschool …I was the only person from our family at his graduation! My mother could not attend because the church building has not been made wheel chair friendly.
So…if I do not have the cash on hand…or even a credit card(due to financial ruin from my banckruptcy from my estranged husband)—–WHO PAYS FOR SCHOOL SUPPLIES FOR MY SON??????????????????
——-NOT THE PRESIDENT, NOT THE GOVERNOR, NOT THE MAYOR, –=—ONLY MY PAYCHECK…THAT COMES NEXT WEEK.
MY RENT IS PAID ON THE 16TH OF THE MONTH
…SO do the math….life is hard.
Yeah, I can sit here and blog…but guess what…?
I have dial up aol system…$9.00 per month.
School supplies, new shoes, and clothes cost a whole lot more than that!
So as always…this woman turns her back, runs to her family because she owns a home across the street from the tennis courts where her child and my child play tennis, and she continued on her merry way of getting great bargins for ‘BACK TO SCHOOL’ for her kids.
GOOD FOR HER!!! But she needs to mind her business when it comes to me….ya know?
NEXT TOPIC:
UNDERSTANDING LIMITATIONS…..You must wonder what my financial problems do to my son?
He is not spoiled…that is for sure! He is not a couch potatoe either!
WE DO NOT HAVE CABLE EITHER
….BUT MY SON DOES HAVE A TENNIS RACKET.
My son is learning that his possible route out of the financial troubles of his mother….may teach him to develop a skill that is both employable…and scholarship worthy!
My son is hearing how tennis coaches make money….”sometimes too much money”
====he is learning the game of golf….too!((((NYC HAS A FREE PROGRAM OF GOLF FOR KIDS IN DYKER STREET….EXIT #4 OFF THE BELT PARKWAY))))
So, money problems…may teach my kid…how to survive with learned skills, and a good education.
So is it all bad?
Sometimes the best life lessons are hard lessons.
I wish it did not have to be the case…for my child.
But I pray for his strength…and my strength too.
till next blog…
river!
ps….the shingles pain is less and I think I can go back to bed now.
QUALIES!!!! QUALIES!!!! US OPEN! QUEENS NEWYORK….15 YEAR OLD AFRICAN AMERICAN YOUNG LADY ON 8/19/08! GREAT! –A LITTLE BIT OF EVERYTHING 6TH INSTALLMENT!
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I heard that Angela had been to a tennis camp/highschool in Florida. She played with the intensity of a pro!
The young lady and her opponent played a very strong 6 matches or so. It was great to watch….except for the grunts and squeals and “COME ON(S)!!!!!” the youngs ladies would yell during extremely intense moments of their game together!
My son who is working on his skills was so excited from watching the game played the ‘right’ way…could not wait to go get a hold of his tennis racket.
My son has a JAPANESE MADE YONEX! (15 year old Angela played her game with a BABALOT TENNIS RACKET!)
My son…. Jay wants a lighter racket now. He says the Yonex is heavier than most!
My son was inspired to see a young African American the same age as himself playing in the QUALIES….Now my kid has stronger aspirations. Where will his goals take him? To College….to the Pros—who knows.?!!!!
Take out the time and run over to see the US OPEN! TENNIS IS A PROGRAM THAT THE WHOLE FAMILY CAN GET INVOLVED IN AND IT IS A BEAUTIFUL AREA IN WHICH TO HELP BUILD TEENAGE SELFESTEEM!
IF YOU ARE A PARENT…IT IS SUCH A BEAUTIFUL THING…TO SEE YOUR CHILD HAPPY IN AN ACTIVITY THAT BUILDS HIS/OR HER MOTIVATION AND GOALS.
I MUST HONESTLY TELL YOU THAT MY FAITH IN THE ONE ABOVE HAS INCREASED WHEN I SEE THE WORLD THROUGH THE EYES OF THE CHILD I BROUGHT INTO THIS WORLD. I SEE THAT AS THE SAY….PLANT THE SEEDS, WATER THEM AND WATCH THEM GROW!
GO OUT TODAY AND GATHER YOUR FAMILY AROUND YOU AND SEE THE MIRACLES TAKE PLACE!—-
AND DON’T FORGET……..
US OPEN IS HISTORY IN THE MAKING!!!!
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RIVER!!!
GOOD FOR WENDY! CONGRATS….SHE MADE IT! A PLUS…PICKED UP AS A REGULAR TV TALK SHOW!—a LITTLE BIT OF EVERYTHING 5TH INSTALLMENT AUGUST 20, 2008
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yEP! Wendy got handed the golden microphone! She will have her own talk show in 2009!
I hope the scandal nonsense is fixed or handled by then! And where is your movie Ms. Williams? November maybe??!!
Next!
Barack Obama is 5% behind in the polls! Whose polls?
Are you telling me that he is not getting votes from the White Democrates? Strange to me that Hillary Clinton has to be placed on the ballot for the Dems…to discuss.
Personally, anything like this makes me uncomfortable…how about you?
Next!
Martin Lawrence, John Travolta, Macy, and Tim Allen….what a great all star cast in “WILD HOGS!”
Martin Lawrence was great!~ A good look! I know, I know….I purchased it! in Holliwood Video!
Great and funny flick indeed! I loved it! I keep rewatching it over and over.
I love John Travolta…(did you see one of his earliest movies…called “BOY IN THE PLASTIC BUBBLE?” jOHN Travolta was a “sleeper”—and a keeper back then!
Tim Allen….I love his Santa Clause! He is cute in his own little way. I am glad to see him doing well.
Mr. Macy…also another cutie-patoOtie! Very silly, yet innocent and childlike in his mannerisms!
Go rent this flick…I AM almost ready to go out and get a Harly Davidison so I can get on the open road myself..and save gas at the same time!
NEXT!
CHILD ABUSE….PARENTING CLASSES…FOR ALL MOTHERS TO BE …NO MATTER WHAT THE AGE!!!!
The news about the dead toddler is taking my heart away! I cannot voice or write my words of what I truly feel about the circumstances that I heard discribed by 1010 Wins today. But I will say this….can we stop our moments of selfish giddy behavior when we hear that a baby is being born to a family and then run the famiy, the family friends, to PARENTING CLASSES….PLEEZE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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GOLF….AND COLLEGE SCHOLARSHIPS….THINK ABOUT IT !
I will fill you in on this later….
IN MY DREAMS
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TOUCHING is strange.
I run from being touched
Possibly afraid of
my own reaction
Possibly afraid that
it might feel too good
So his hands were gentle
his voice stroked the
side of my neck as
he bent over and whispered
something in my ear
I fought the feeling
and I was angry at
myself…for fighting it
for being committed
to MORAL VALUES
for being committed
to religious beliefs
I will not falter…
I will not fall.
ALTHOUGH TEMPTED
i will not crawl
beneath the power
of the temptation
I will stand with
head held high
And later…I truly will
let out a deep, full sigh
For yes I was hurt by your blunt
display…I wanted a different,
much different way…
Yet deep within…there
was another spin
My heart said no….no….NO!
Songs of love, wedding bells,
engagment rings, buying a new house
the first baby….then the loss of my
husband….
And now this….ONE man now approaches and
he does not want to start a family,
he does not want to get married,
he does not want that first baby
he does not and will not buy me
and engagement ring.
He simply wants my
body….or what
he perceives is my body
from what he can see through
my clothes.
My feelings are hurt…my soul is burnt
my heart bleeds…for what I lost.
We, my husband and I would
have made love all night
and then the sun would catch
us laying in each others arms and
talking about the day and our lives together…
My husband would arise and shower.
I would lay and slumber longer
I would be rosed by bacon and eggs that
my husband would serve
me in bed
Now….our marriage, our
relationship is DEAD—
DEAD…due to catastrophic disease…
Lost is my lover, my best friend…my husband…
and NOw I ponder..
the value of my life…
under this new world order…
do I allow myself
to be short changed
and live life according to
limitations of feeling used,
and undervalued?
In my dreams…I experience
intimacy…but not hurt feelings
In my dreams… I remember my
true love…my lost love…My husband….now
gone….So
that human touch, that slight embrace, around my
neck, that whisper….
has awoken a spirit of
urgency…but
yet i with draw and
remember you….
IN MY DREAMS.
~~~fini
riveroflifelisajoy
Trusting the One Above
IN THE SPIRIT---
HOLD TIGHT TO THE
MASTER’S HAND
FOR HE HAS THE
GREAT MASTER
PLAN
FOR YOU,
FOR ME
HE KNOWS OUR
DESTINY
SOME DO NOT
BELIEVE IN
PREDESTINATION
WHILE OTHERS
BELIEVE
THAT LIFE IS NO COMPLETE
HAPPINESS
BUT TODAY
I RECOMMEND
HOLD TIGHT TO
THE MASTER’S
HAND—
FOR YOU AND
FOR ME
HE HAS A MASTER
PLAN.
THE DAY BREAK
AND THE SUNSET
ARE TIMED
JUST PERFECTLY
THE HEAVENS
ABOVE STAY
IN ORBIT AND
OUR LIFE AND
DEATH IS ORDAINED
BEFORE WE
KNEW WHO
WE WER
SO HOLD TIGHT
TO THE MASTER’S
HAND
FOR HE HAS
A PERFECT
MASTER PLAN
FOR US
ALL.
~~~~FINI
NEW AGE RELIGION AND OPRAH! HAS OPRAH CHANGED HER WORLD VIEW AND RELIGIOUS VIEW???
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It really is quite simple. Oprah has come to the top…sort of like Martin Luther King….She has been to the mountain top…and she has seen things most of us only dream about. So what do we hold on to? We hold on to our faith. We will fight for our faith. Some people die for their faith. What happened to Oprah you ask??? HAS OPRAH BACK SLID???
Oprah has been through a lot of negative experiences in life. Her past sexual abuse experiences have helped to shape her views of the world.
I believe that her heart is in the right place. However, strick Christians would not agree. However, is Oprah obligated to “preach” the gospel that she does not completely agree with? Does Oprah call her self BORN -AGAIN? I do not believe that I have ever heard Oprah refer to herself as being, “SAVED” have you???
So why do we as minority folk, African Americans…believe that Oprah is leading people astray? You have to be a Pastor, or atleast claim yourself to be a Evangelist atleast…inorder to lead people.
Oprah Winfrey is a television talk show host. She just happens to be African American, she just happens to have come from a “Christian Background..” But the last time I checked…most African American Denominations that are Baptist, or other wise…believe that a SINNER must confess his sins to the Lord Jesus in order to be saved. You should not term yourself a Baptist…if you have not confessed your sins and accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior.
Has Oprah ever discussed that on Television? I do not believe I heard a show about her “confession of her sins and receiving the “SHED BLOOD OF JESUS” upon her life and soul for the REDEMPTION OF SINS…HAVE YOU?
So before you can call Oprah a LEADER IN THE CHURCH…you must examin her life as what we are so LOOSELY terming CHRISTIAN LIFESTYLE….
What makes a person a spokes person of Christain Ethics….what makes a person a spokes person in the Christian Church….There are many who would argue that Gay people cannot be considered Christian. So let us not banter the term of Christian around so quickly….
I believe that you cannot call Oprah anything until you have examined who she really believes her life to be patterned after.
Since Oprah does not have a congregation of followers…per se’ than let us assume that she is no different than the people that we have conversations with around the “water cooler” or “water bottle” at work.
Everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion.
Can you ram your religion down someones throat????
You must LOVE PEOPLE INTO THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN….YOU CAN NOT CHASE THEM DOWN THE STREET AND SCREAM AT THEM.
Look at the Old Testament….the Prophets were always the first to get killed? Why? Because they told people things that they did not LIKE OR WANT TO HEAR!!!!
Some prophets were stoned to death.
Lets say Oprah started telling people to stop wearing body tatooes. How well would that go over?
How long would Oprahs talk show last if she told people that they BETTER STOP HAVING SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE…OR SEX OUT OF MARRIAGE, OR CHILDREN WITHOUT BEING MARRIED?
Oprah is trying to make a dollar…which is a freedom that we enjoy in this country!
Do you think she is trying to offend her audience and then loose her ratings and her beautiful homes etc., etc.,
Of course she is not going to say that.—So Oprah Winfrey is a DIPLOMAT….OPrah is a diplomat.
She will not change her views or discuss her personal relationship with God on major television networks…therefore she will only say things that will not offend …but bring people together. Especially people who would not believe in God or even try to change their life style at all.
So in essence…CAN YOU CATCH MORE FLIES WITH HONEY…THAN WITH VINEGAR????
Of course you can!
So, am I stating that Oprah is trying to EVEN CATCH ANYBODY AT ALL?
no, i DO NOT BELIEVE SHE IS ATTEMPTING TO CHANGE THE WORLD THROUGH RELIGIOUS THOUGHTS…but she is trying to bridge the gap between good and evil deeds, and helping the global commmunity.
I think she has a right to her PRIVATE THOUGHTS on this issue. Does she have to confess her SALVATION in front of an entire nation?
Has every Christian reading this blog…OPENLY CONFESSED YOUR SALVATION TO YOUR PLACE OF BUSINESS OR WORK LATELY? HOW MUCH DISCUSSION ARE YOU ALLOWED TO ENGAGE IN BEFORE SOMEONE FILES A COMPLAINT TO EEO ABOUT INAPPROPRIATE RELIGIOUS TALK AT THE WORK PLACE?
I believe that we can look up to Oprah as a role model for young African American girls and boys to follow down the road to success through hard work. However, I would not try to fit Oprah into the role of the CHURCH EVANGELIST at this time.
What do you think????
SUMMER FUN FOR MY SON!!
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MY BABY JAY JEWELZ IS HAVING A GREAT SUMMER!!!
My child just returned from a USTA TENNIS SCHOLARSHIP CAMP IN NEW ENGLAND!!!`
HALLELUJAH!!!
LAST SUMMER HE DID ABSOLUTELY NOTHING! HE DID NOT GO TO AN AMUSEMENT PARK OR ANYTHING….NOT EVEN THE BEACH!
LAST YEAR SOMEONE HAD STOLEN MY LAP TOP COMPUTER.
BUT IN SEPTEMBER OF LAST YEAR I PURCHASED THIS USED DELL FROM A MAN IN VALLEY STREAM NEW YORK.
I HAD LOOKED UP USTA, OF WHICH MY SON IS A MEMBER…I FOUND THAT THERE WERE SCHOLARSHIP PROGRAMS FOR USTA KIDS FOR SUMMER CAMP PROGRAMS.
WHAT A BLESSING AND A MIRACLE.
MY SON WENT AWAY TO CAMP IN PAWLING, NY FOR 13 DAYS!!!!
WOW!
IF YOUR CHILD PLAYS TENNIS ….JOIN USTA!!!!
USTA IS GREAT!!!
MY SON HAS A MEDICAL PROBLEM…AND HE WAS AWAY AND
DID NOT HAVE ANY MEDICAL CRISIS!!!
THERE WAS A NURSE ON SITE, AND A DOCTOR ON CALL!
HE STAYED IN A DORMATORY IN A SMALL COLLEGE UPSTATE
HE PLAYED TENNIS, HAD SPORTS, WENT TO MOVIES, WENT TO THE MALL,
HAD CABLE TV, 3 MEALS A DAY AND ALSO GOT CONSTRUCTIVE
INSIGHT TO HIS TENNIS SKILLS!
USTA IS A GREAT ORGANIZATION!
THANK YOU U
Who is Brad Pitt? Jolie-Pitt? Go Out and Rent 7 years In Tibet!!
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We often wonder what motivates some people to live the life style that they live. Some people are loner types, some people are shop-a- holics, some people are party people, some people are sports people, some people live their life talking politics, some people live in servitude to causes like world peace, some people fight for human rights, some people are like Gandi, or Mother Teresa. It all depends what a person finds to be his or her personal Treasure in life. So what brings me to the movie SEVEN YEARS IN TIBET?
I had purchased it some months ago. Everytime I watched the movie I would fall alseep. It took me a long time to finally see it through. The movie Seven years in Tibet is about Brad Pitt as a young mountain climber from Switzerland who wants to climb the HIMALAYA MOUNTAINS during the Germany and Europe Wars involving Hitler.
His young wife is pregnant when he leaves under great fanfare of news reporters due to the political overtones of Germany and its goals. She is quite upset and he brushes off her anxiety with his own frustration.
A news reporter asked his “very” pregnant wife when is the baby due during a press conference and she states, “About the time my husband will reach the summit.” He looks hard at her and then boards the train after some tense words.
He ends up battling the mountain in a rather immature way. He injures himself and does not tell his fellow climbers. This lack of team work nearly cost his teammate his life because there was a slide and and Brad Pitt’s character, could barely hold the “line” (rope) because of the severe pain in his leg that he had to use to stablize himself while trying to pull his fellow climber to safety.
He was threatened with being put off the climb if he chose to not inform the team of any further injuries. Injuries could affect the lives of others. He realizes that the climb took so long that he could not make it back in time for the birth of his son.
He and his climbing buddies wind up being arrested by the English Army because the Himalaya’s are supposedly “land that belongs to England.” Since England was in war with Germany and the climb was German based…oh, well, the arrest.
Brad Pitt’s character tries to escape numerous times. He begins to take on a humorous appearance to the other detainees. Around this time however his wife mails him a letter and informs him to sign a devorice paper.
She also informs him that she is going to marry someone that he knows. The most heart breaking statement that his wife makes in her letter is that she informed his child that he died while trying to make the climb.
After reading this letter Brad Pitt’s character attempts to escape from the prison camp again. He tries to climb painful barbed wire and then just thrusts himself into it. It ends up in solitary confinement afterwards.
The other climbers ask his assistance to escape in a sensible way. They make it. However, Brad Pitt’s character leaves the group and heads off on his own. After a series of events he runs into the original leader of the Himalaya climb who had escaped the prison camp along with him.
They set off together and end up in Tibet. The original leader of the climb meets a woman in Tibet and they get married. Brad Pitt’s character meets with the boy…teenager Dalilama and befriends him. Their friendship is endearing and enduring. Brad Pitt’s character builds a movie threater for the Dalilama.
What ensures is that Brad Pitt’s character has a life changing exprience and it alters his future drastically. Tibet’s independance is threatened by another super power in the world. The Dalilama and his people attempt to protect themselves, and Bradd Pitt’s character has to move on. He does not want to leave his friend.
He has turned his relationship almost into a “father-son” relationship. However the young Dalilama clearly sets him straight. He lets him address the truth of his own son in Switzerland and give him the strength to go home.
As a gift he give Brad Pitt’s character a music box that plays the sweetest delicate little song. The ending of the movie closes with his son listening to the music box, and then the two of them climbing the mountains together.
It was such a touching movie. Brad Pitt played a head strong young man, who had to come to terms with his own selfishness and then open himself to experience redemption.
So now looking at his current life style with Angolina Jolie….I wonder. Is Brad Pitt a person whose true heart is toward servitude and healing wounds? Does he truly love those six children in such a deep way that he is willing to give up all for them? I think so.
His heart felt portrayal of a man that walked in clouded ignorance and comes to realize his wrongs and attempts to right them was very touching. I cry every time I see the very end of the movie. How often in our own lives do we wish we could right some wrong we have done to someone? How often have we wished for a second or third chance in life?
How beautiful it is when we do actually get a second chance to right a wrong that we have done. To see him with his son…to realize what is important in life….those are the things depicted in the movie SEVEN YEARS IN TIBET will give a little insight into Brad Pitt.
Most actors read their scripts and decide if it is good for them or not. This was a touching movie and I believe we could see the love and concern with which Mr. Pitt played his role. Go out and rent this movie.
It will do your heart and soul good. Very little action…but a great deal of love and understanding.
Congratulations Jolie-Pitt family, on the birth of your twins.
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